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Yes the stress from fostering does add to our marital issues but these were issues that existed prior to fostering, we simply had just put it aside. We thought that the stress were from not being able to have anymore kids. So we decided to foster. I'm pretty positive, fostering or no fostering, these issues were still there and our marriage would still not have worked. I think we pushed it as far as it would go. My husband is not happy about the split, and yes it is me wanting it more but he understands. We are being very amicable and have already discussed financial arrangements, visitations, etc. I don't want to cause any unnecessary stress for my son.
The thought of me just saying that they need to close my house, frightens me.
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2 boys
 
Bio Mom to:
Mr. Don Juan - The Ladies Man
Foster Mom:
Mr. Baby Don King - placed 8/08 - R/U
Former Foster Mom and Dad to:
Mr. Investigator - 8/07-5/08 - Moved to therapeutic (Miss him greatly)
Mr. Home Run Hitter - 5/08 - Moved to relative
Ms. Puff-Balls - 5/08 - Moved to relative
Ms. Pumkin - 6/08 - Back to Dad
Mr. El Gato - placed 6/08-7/08 - To a not so good choice non-relative
Ms. Beautiful Angel - 8/08 - Home, Came back into care 10/08, Went to another foster home.
Mr. Baby Stewie - 07/08 - 8/08 - Went back Home
Mr. Peabody - 10/08 - 12/08 - Disrupted - Went back to previous FP for adoption
Mr. Touchy - placed 8/07-02/09 - Had moved to another FH, because of my personal issues  , hoping that one day I can get him back. I love him, more than I have words...
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