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This is not an answer to your direct question... its more of a side note. If it is the stress of fostering that is causing you and hubby to split, wouldn't you rather close your home and work on your marriage for the sake of your bio son? I come at this from the place of being the child of divorced parents... I don't wish divorce on anyone, but especially the kids. If you think there is any hope of reclaiming what you've lost, that course of action is what gets my vote.
That said, if you do move forward with separation, I would stop fostering and focus on your son, it will be very hard on him whether he lets on or not.
So, I guess, either way... my advice would be to stop fostering and help your family get through this... whatever that looks like.
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Mama to Pixie  and Tucker  both two, both adorable, both adopted.
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