[Fran27]

Regarding circumcision, I think it's very important to talk about it early during a match, if you have the opportunity. It's definitely their choice, but if you're not comfortable with the decision, or the fact that she won't listen to your opinion on the matter, it might not be the match for you... I know I'd have a hard time with someone trusting me to raise their child but not taking into account my opinion on the subject.

For us the hospital asked us to make the decision, but it's a pretty closed adoption and I'm not even sure the birthparents saw the babies after birth.