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Good morning,
I am really sorry to hear you are having a tough time right now. I had a thought though - have you noticed the favoritism before, or was it just this one time? I am just asking because I know with my kids if I've had a rough week (or month!) with them, it is sometimes hard to get back into the groove of things with them, and from the outside it might look like I am favouring one over the other - when the truth is the other one just put me through the wringing for a week and I created a bit of distance, you know?
Of course, that may not be it at all. I am talking about things like just being "easier" on one than the other at a given time, not things like giving on a bigger piece of pumpkin pie, etc.
Either way, it must be so hard for you to see this. I am really sorry and I hope things get better soon.
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Mom to bio dd - age 16 -
Mom to adopted ds - age 10 -
Waiting to adopt #3 from South Africa
December 2005 - Began Homestudy
May 2006 - Homestudy approved -
June 2006 - Profile in South Africa
July 2006 - waiting for a referral!!!!!!
Nov 2006 - Referral - it's a boy!!!!
Dec 27th - leave for SA! the countdown begins....
January 22nd - Home in Canada with new baby boy.

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