I think it would depend on the relationship between the foster parent and the bio parent.
If there is a good relationship and the parent was really working hard on his/her end then I think the foster parents would want to extend themselves a little more.
If it appears that the bio parent is using the foster parent as a pawn in his/her petty little game...then I would want to remove myself from the situation by having the parent make requests through the agency.
I would let the agency know what I was willing to do above and beyond my responsibilities of caring for the child and leave the rest for the agency to decide if they wanted to do or help the bio parent do.
IMO, if the bio parent says they want the child to have a certain or specific something, then I think it is the bio's responsibility to get it..take care of it...or do it.
Meaning, for example, we are to provide clothing for the children. If the bios want the children wearing a certain style or brand...then they should feel free to go to the store and buy it themselves.
