That's probably exactly what's happening. I've spoken with the caseworker very firmly about the last incident. She said she is not allowed to feed her anymore. And she may not bring her B-day cake for this next visit
That is just too much I think. I reassured her that B-day cake from bmom is an excellent idea. Just teach her about portion control. Give her daughter a 3 year old portion, not half the cake. ( Which would really happen
) Bring her junk food if that's what she wishes. But give her 3 year old portions. Not 5 adult size portions of all kinds of stuff.
So what I realized, sadly, was she honestly does not know better. That's how she was raised, and that's what she's doing.
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Bio baby girl is here!
Bio son: 8 yrs old
Bio son: 4.5 yrs old
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FD: ze Master Manipulator 3yrs old
moved to adoptive placement! woohoo
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