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Old 11-28-2008, 10:19 PM
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Wanted to share something that others may relate to

I just wanted to share some thoughts....
The other day my dear friend shared with me that her and her husband were buying a wonderful new house.
She was getting all new appliances and also redoing the whole kitchen. ( already a beautiful house)
On top of this they were buying a new 50 inch TV.
Now they had come into some money due to a death in the family so they made these choices. They made the choice some years ago not to have children so it is just the two of them......
Well.. i was feeling pretty darn envious!!!!!!

My husband stays home with our beautiful daughter due to having medical reasons why he can not work. We went through many health issues with him but he is doing great and has been for quite a while now.

I took a pay cut (large one) when we adopted our daughter so that I would not have to work long hours and have more time for my family.

So here I was feeling a little sorry for myself since we aren't able to do these things....
Then I started to really think.....
NEVER ONCE did i ever pray for a new appliance or granit countertops.LOL I prayed for a wonderful husband who would make it through surgeries and be able to get healthy again. I prayed for a baby that we could love and raise. I prayed that we would be a happy family and guess what... my prayers were answered!!!
It's then that I stopped feeling sorry for myself and felt so overwhelmed and blessed.

Now... would you like to know WHEN this all came to me?????
The other day when my husband and I took our daughter to the library for a "family movie day" showing of Tinkerbell. So here we are watching Tinkerbell and my husband says"are you crying"?
LOL
He thought i was crying about this little Tinkerbell movie when I was really getting teary eyed thinking of all of this and feeling very blessed that I was sitting there with the daughter I prayed for and a husband who would sit through Tinkerbell to make his little girl (and big girl) happy!!!!
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Michele

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