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Old 11-28-2008, 03:04 AM
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is this possible?

for those of you who have been following my other thread "crying and needing support" you know that my home has been in choas for the past week.

bmom was released from the hospital on wednesday. The children were supposed to go right back into her care. Since they were all coming for Thanksgiving they had stayed.

On Thanksgiving S told bmom that he does not want to go home with her. He is scared and does not feel safe there. He said he never knows what to expect, that he loves her, wants to see her but does not want to live with her.

Because of this conversation bmom has decided that if he feels that way and she cannot make him feel safe and secure that the girls probably felt the same way even though they had not verbalized it. She realized that because of her mental status that she can not meet the childrens emotional needs.

She has decided that on Monday she wants to put the children back into care until she can work another plan and get herself back where she needs to be so she can give her children what they need.

Has anyone ever seen that happen before? Can she tell the CPS worker that she wants them taken when she comes out for the interview?
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