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Old 11-27-2008, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted by vegaschristina
While this may be the case in your family's situation, I HUGELY resent the implication that because I love and want to adopt the foster children in my care I'm evil.


I don't think a person is evil either for loving and wanting the best for these kids. I don't think the FP's whom faught me for our niece was evil in anyway whatsoever. They were loving her as their own and wanting her to stay with them. I don't believe what they did was right...or they made the right choices. I also don't believe my SIL made the right choices to protect my niece from harm either.

I think what the other poster meant to say is she was angry because she is a safe and qualified relative whom the FP's are fighting placement with. That she doesn't believe is right. I think saying someone is "evil" for doing that isn't the right wording either.
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Mom to 2 girls-age 10 and 15

1st MAPP class: 9/9/2006
MAPP class completed: 9/30/2006
Home study completed: 11/2006
Home study submitted for approval: 11/14/2006
Foster License approved! 11/22/2006
Flew to visit Niece for 3 wks 3/2007
Judge rules placement with us 5/2007

Leaving to bring Niece home 6/15/2007
Niece is offically part of our family 6/30/2007
TPR Bio Dad by default 8/9/2007
TPR Bio Mom voluntary surrender 8/9/2007
Adoption subsidy agreement approved and signed 05/2008

Adoption finalization date 7/18/2008! YEAH





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