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Old 11-25-2008, 04:17 PM
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At first I was also like "no sexually abused kids" . But then I realized that more than likely you won't know that the child has been abused until they have been in your home for a while. The fact that you already know this means you can be more prepared. Ask your social worker about the steps you would need to take to keep everyone safe. Not just your daughter but also the foster kids too so that they don't become victimized again. If you don't think you can do what's needed, then you should pass on it. Also you need to know what the sexual acting out was. Did she make advances on another child or was she caught touching herself? And remember that these kids don't really see what they are doing as wrong. It's normal. They learned that it's how you comfort yourself or make someone else feel good or get some positive attention. How did the previous foster parents handle the situation? Definitely find out more information on the specifics before you make up your mind.
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