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Old 11-25-2008, 07:37 AM
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Sexual acting out is just one part of the equation. Realize that sexually abused children don't come from loving, safe, moral homes. They have likely seen violence, crimes, pornography, etc. So, even if they aren't sexually acting out, they will have life experiences that your daughter does not. Realize that they will be teaching your daughter things that you may not like. They may cuss, they may lie, they may steal. Just because they currently aren't sexually acting out doesn't mean they won't in the future (the trauma of movign to your home could trigger it). Or they may be sexually acting out and no one knows. Be cautious. Do not let them share bedrooms. Do not let them play together unsupervised.

This is just my opinion - I would not bring these children into my home if I had a 5 year old. If something happens to your child and her innocence is taken, you will never forgive yourself. I personally would not risk it. JMO
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