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My dh is an adoptee who chooses to have nothing to do with 4 of 6 found bsibs. I can tell you that being spied upon would completely creep us out, and finding out that it had occurred would most certainly guarantee that we NEVER had anything more to do with them, and did everything possible to ensure that we hid even more.
Being a bsib doesn't give someone the right to track from afar, imo. It just doesn't. I can completely understand and empathize with wanting family history, medical info, and general curiousity...but spying on someone repeatedly is just plain creepy to me, and I honestly can't think of anyone in my life that would find it a positive at all.
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God doesn't call the equipped. He equips the called.
Proud homeschooling Momma 
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