[EandDmom]

When we got our placement the head social worker dropped them off. She said make certain you keep a stash of clothes to have for yourself to have on hand for the kids that will come into your home. We don't get a clothing allowance in my state. I'm planning on sending the clothes that fit them except for what I bought before they arrived those are mine. They can have the special toys they have gotten. Birthday, christmas and whatever they have earned off of their star chart. That is it. Major items I bought are staying here. We heard in class how one father insisted the child should get the families tv since the child had used it. If that were the case the kids would leave with everything in my house.