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I would be very cautious in communications with the mother about this. She is not in the best frame of mind to make any decisions about her unborn child.
On a personal level, of course, your heart is crying out for a child. I am there standing right next to you.
I have been down this road and it did not have a happy ending.
Depending on the kind of relationship you have the case worker. you might want to share this information with them. Just remember they are bound to disclose all of this to the court system.
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FP to Little Buddy in foster care since 12/07, initial concurrent case plan to reunify family
Mom to felines and avians.. fur and feathers galore
GOAL was changed to ADOPTION on December 18
TPR trial May 28
TPR continuance granted for procedural reasons.
Removed from our home with no notice and placed in other foster home with siblings.
Retained attorney to request change of placement back to our home.
Granted "participant" status - hearings in process to return Little Buddy to our home as non relative care givers.
Three hearings: our reputation and good name raked over the coals. State agency incompetency prevails overall evidence. (Just disgusted)
Judge ruled : remain in current placement. Indicated she didn't want to disrupt him anymore and that likely return to biological mother within two months.
Will not renew my Foster Care agreement.
My heart is broken. Grieving the loss of a child as if he had died suddenly.
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