It does sound strange, but this happens all the time in step-parenting relationships. Even though you are grown children, your stepmother(nanacy) has not gotten done what she intended to do...isolate her husband from his children. I am sad to say, but this really is something your Dad is going to HAVE to handle. He will eventually have to tell nancy, he is not giving his relationship up, and she will have to decide if she can handle this or not. This is not fair to you and brother, and all grandkids, if he does not do something. He will have to nip this in thebud, and do it immediatly, for you guys to all have a chance at a relationship. I send prayers and thoughts your way...Blessings...
