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jules, we turned down a ''match'' on reasons that may not have made sense to anyone else but did to us....lo and behold it turned out the emom had boy girl twins and my friend adopted them!!! I have met them and know that they are exactly with the right family.we met a couple that dd's birth mom was considering at an adoption party. they said they were so bummed until...a week later they were called re their dd. we laughed that things turned out perfectly for both of us.you may not have ''visibility'' into what will happen but trust in your heart that you did the right thing and this baby will also find the ''right thing.'' this is all such a leap of faith but as others said when you jump in you want to be 100 percent (and you will know it when it happens)...hang in there!
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