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I do feel like I am grieving. People don't seem to understand I need time, they are trying to rush me back to being normal old me. I try to tell them that it feels like how it would feel if you just went into a hospital and snatched someone's baby.
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Standing up and saying “You need to hear me!” is very important.. It took me over twenty years to finally say those words.. Some never say them.. Some of us kept the secret and our quiet for years.. a terribe terrible thing to do in my opinion..
According to Elisabeth Kubler-Ross in her book.. On Grief and Grieving.. the stages of grief are…
………denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance
This from a review of the book written by David Kessler..
The authors state that, "if you do not take the time to grieve, you cannot find a future in which loss is remembered and honored without pain."
So maybe getting that book and reading it as a guide on how to honor your grief and in turn you can give it to others who want you to rush through your grief..
Jackie