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I would be way more concerned about the extended stay than the coat. But you and your husband may have already worked out those details? Whoa ... sounds like a lot to me.
As far as the coat, when we give gifts, once they leave my hand, whatever is done with them is not my concern. I gave a gift and the recipient can do what they want. And if I am not in this frame of mind, I don't give a gift.
We are like this with money too...no loans. If we get the money back, great. But if I give it as a gift (in my mind) then I release myself from the stress about getting it back.
JMHO.
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 Jules
5/23/06- our sweet baby Samuel Miles born
1/19/07 - Home with The Giggler and never been happier!
11/08/06 - our sweet baby Lucas Matthew born
8/21/07 - Home!!! The Growler is just like his brother - a complete HONEY BEAR!
June 4, 2009- Julian "Jude" Thomas born. He is the sweetest of hearts. Oh, how I love my boys so!
Our children are not ours because they share our genes...they are ours because we have had the audacity to envision them and hope for them.
That, at the end of the day...or long sleepless night, is how love really works. - Unknown
I LOVE MY SWEET SONS!!!
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