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You are so right - this time should be all about celebrating the reconnection. It appears that Nancy will never be able to do that. I'm so sorry things are so horrible for your dad and you, his biological family.
I met my bdad last year after 50 years. His wife has "issues" with me even though they were married over 20 years after I was given up for adoption. So, we have never met. After reading what Nancy is doing to sabatage your relationship, I am very grateful that his wife is being passive. She isn't forbiding our relationship - just making it more difficult since it must be secret and hidden.
It is very weird, though, don't you think to be treated as "the other woman" in your father's life. I certainly get that feeling. My bdad had surgery this summer - and I had to ask him to have his administrative assistant call me with updates. I knew he could have died and I would never know from his family. Very weird.
My prayers are with you and yours.
Jill
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