[guatparents2be]

Wow. I know how much you have going on in your life and I imagine that this has thrown you for quite a loop! My thoughts are with you...

We tried to get PG for a few months when I finally just broke down with DH and was able to articulate that I really didn't feel right about getting PG because I never really desired it, I have a strong belief that the earth is being stretched to capacity with the number of people already on it, and there are so many children in need of homes.

After we cleared PGN people would say that now I'd probably get PG I'd look shocked and say "I hope not, it would mean my birth control isn't working!"

Turned out in the end that less than a year after J came home I had a hysterectomy and they found I had a giant fibroid, endometriosis, a large ovarian cyst and a fallopian tube that looked like a slinky. Hmph, all that birth control wasted!

In all seriousness though, it's always tough to deal with other people sticking their noses in your business (so to speak.) Here we are free of judgment and simply send love.