If it's important to your DH, then you need to. I have a very sick child, so I know how easy it is to have everything be about them. Sometimes, it just has to be! However, my marriage deserves time and energy too. My son's (wonderful) CT surgeon has really encouraged me to get some respite for us, so we finally have it in place. I would however, find someone you really trust. I'm lucky enough to have some wonderful, kind nurses who watch Cameron.
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Cameron is born 11/10/07  FINALIZED!!! 4/3/08 
Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07
Heart Moms develop iron wills – they will go to the ends of the earth for their child, and if that’s not far enough they’ll tie a rope and drag the earth with them. (Steve~the Funky Heart)
A heart defect doesn’t just break one heart... it breaks three. -Supporting the Congenital Heart Futures Act
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