[thelowlanders]

I've even went as far as to ask the caseworker if this visit thing is really necessary. Fd is almost 3, knows who her bio mother is and won't forget, and can't we just wait for her mom to jump through the mandatory hoops and get her back when she does. Not emotionally stress out this little girl and foster fam in the whole process of keeping bio contributor happy.....

There was of course no response to that email