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Old 11-22-2008, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted by Jackiejdajda
I do not think you can stop the pain.. I think we have to travel through it..
There is a trick.. a different way with this kind of grief.. you have suffered a great loss and I know we all need to honor your loss..
I did not honor my grief when I gave my son up for adoption..

Maybe you can keep a journal of your grief.. your thoughts your feelings a photo..

And I am so sorry for your loss.. so very very sorry.. I am sorry you have to join with us who have surrendered..


Jackie


I do feel like I am grieving. People don't seem to understand I need time, they are trying to rush me back to being normal old me. I try to tell them that it feels like how it would feel if you just went into a hospital and snatched someone's baby. Thats how I feel. I know it was my choice but that doesn't make it okay emotionally to me.
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