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some things to do
The most important thing is to stay firm and not change your mind. As for the computer, if he is going to sneak around in the middle of night and get on you can always put a password on it that has to be typed in before someone can log into the computer. That way when you are sleeping or not around he can not get on and do things he isn't supposed to do. Let him know that you know the changes will be hard for him but if he wants to continue living with you these things he must do. As someone else said, he has the right to decide whether or not he wants to live with you. Just make it very clear that if does decide he wants to stay that he will have to follow your rules. If he can follow the rules, then may have to stop having him live with you. You also have to consider your other children and how his behavior may affect him.
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