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My husband and I have been visiting with a 15 yr. old boy that we might adopt. We have 3 bio. children of our own they are 18 15 and 8. We are a Christian family and are trying very hard to raise our children in a christian home. It seems like it is getting harder and harder to do in this day and age. My question is the the young man we have been visiting with seams to like alot of music, movies and other things on the computer, games and such that we do not allow our children to do or listen to. We would like to welcome this young man into our home but we can not allow him to bring all the games, music and other things into our home to expose our children to. Do you think it is right to ask him to follow our rules and not bring that stuff into our home? He was very upset tonight when I picked him up and would not let him listen to the music cd he had. I want him to know we will love him and want to take care of him but I also want him to know that some things will have to change and he may not like them. Is it fair to ask him to leave some of these things at the shelter?