[MNmom2276]

I would ask about her family. How many brothers, sisters, parents, grandparents and other children she may have. Ask what she likes to do, what dislikes she may have. Let her know you will take good care of her child. I think reasurrance is always a good thing. Ask her if there is anything she may want her child to know as he grows older. You could ask her about any medical conditions she may have experienced that could be passed on. Just some things I think I would want to know. As your child gets older he will get more curious and it is wonderful if you can give them some idea of where he came from and what his mother was like. The more you have to share with him the more satisfied he will be. I know from personal experience on both ends. (adopted child and parent of adopted children) It will be very exciting for you...best of luck. For a gift, maybe a photo album with pictures of her child to cherish.