[guatparents2be]

It wasn't that long ago that Becca had to go through this. I was shocked and saddened, actually.

Perhaps the tide has changed, which is amazing. And perhaps it is a sign that being on this board has opened certain people up to looking at their adoptions not as a second choice or a fallback, but as a great blessing.

Although we only tried to get PG for a little while before I could really figure out how to explain to DH why and how deeply I preferred adoption, I do remember feeling sad at baby showers etc. Feeling your feelings is important. But to stifle or judge or take away from someone else's joy, blessing and light is just sad.

I'm glad to see that we as a group are moving toward loving and supporting each other for what we're going through even if it brings up our own stuff.

xo