[ej-momtobe]

I agree with the OP that this seems a little odd. I have trouble understanding how someone could fully accept an adopted child as 'their own' if they are still on pins and needles any time someone brings up bio children or pregnancy. It sounds like more of the reaction of someone who has not yet come to terms with infertility and therefore not ready to adopt. (Note: I am not judging anyone who still has these feeling or saying that they can't be a good AP, only that I don't understand).