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Old 11-20-2008, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted by grumpyskirtgirl
Too be honest, I think that whether it is read in the title or the post it is going to cause hurt to someone. It doesn't really "save" anyones feelings since they had to read it in the title.

As a disclaimer, I do not fault anyone for doing so, I just personally think it is fruitless.

For me reading it in the title and reading all of the details is totally different.

As someone that has had several losses there was a time that reading someone go on and on about their pregnancy would hurt me very much and bring up old wounds. I appreciate that those posters are being thoughtful and understanding of the feelings of others!

For me I guess it is like seeing 'spoiler' in the title, if you can handle reading it you click it, if not you skip it!! You are given the choice and not blind sided by it!
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