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Old 11-19-2008, 08:47 PM
Lillyanya Lillyanya is offline
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I understand the just wanting to drive down there and say HI, but I also think it's extremely immature of you.

For one, this is not something you take your friends to, unless you're looking for your first meeting to turn into a Jerry Springer worthy show.

You catch more flies with honey then you do with vinegar. Doing this will make it more likely that you will not get any of the questions you want answered.

How would you like it if you were just sitting there chilling with your a parents and your bio mom walked up to the door knocked and starting shouting questions at you? Saying hi honey it's Mommy. It would be just as upseting, and there's a good chance a lot of people don't know about you.

You may not want a relationship, and yes you have the right to know where you came from, but it's highly unlikely that you're going to get anything you want doing it this way.
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June 11, 2008 - Was sent information from a lovely search angel

June 12, 2008 - Made initial contact with my birth grandparents
Spoke to Birth Mother for the first time!!!
First meeting was AMAZING!!!!

November 11, 2008 - Found my Bio Dad's myspace

November 12, 2008 - Spoke to him for the first time, and 2 more times.

November 14, 2008 - Found my brother's myspace

November 15, 2008 - Spoke to my brother for the first time!!!
He gave me my sister's myspace!

February 2009 - I met my sister for the first time! We are kindred spirits!

10 Siblings (including adoptive sister) - Have yet to find/meet/talk to 4 of them.
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