[spicedmama]

My opinion. I think they should go to the church that you attend. That is your family's church home. If you would like to expose them to cultural/ethnic activities, there should be other avenues to do so within your community. Go to where the family feels comfortable. If there is a special program at the "other" church, then that would be great to expose them to at that time.

And, not all Black churches last 3 to 4 hours or more. It depends on the denomination. Pentecostal/Holiness churches do tend to go longer than "the norm."