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So what if I never get a response??? What if I ask if she wants a "mutual" first meeting and she doesn't answer or says NO? Should I respect the fact that she wants nothing to do with me when all I really want is answers. I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship....i need closure on a lot of things. Shouldn't she RESPECT my right to know certain things about who I am and where I came from?? And if I do send a letter....how long do you expect someone to wait for contact?? Because the anxiety of that could really tear someone apart.
And i'm not bringing friends to bombard her with 4 people. They are coming for moral support. I would never bombard someone with other people about something like this. I think after 27 years I have the right to answer!
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ISO Birth Mother. I was born on June 26, 1981 in Booth Memorial Hospital in Queens, NY which is now called The New York Hospital Medical Center of Queens or The New York Hospital Queens for short. My birth mother was 21 when I was born and her name is Barbara Dunn. The lawyers who did the adoption was George Moss as well as Cindy Nathan.
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