[BrandyHagz]

I think when it’s all said and done, you have to do what you feel comfortable doing and what makes you feel most comfortable in the situation.

My suggestion, however, would be to avoid using someone with questionable ethics and instead, find someone who completes the entire process above board. If they are being unethical in one portion of the process, I would be worried that their disregard for the law and the rights of others would translate into some sort of legal fiasco for the entire case.

I would be surprised if a professional who had some sort of racket going on to ensure placement would allow an uninvolved party to participate in any portion of the counseling that would normally be taking place.

Try to find someone who maintains a deep respect for all of those involved and has a high level of moral code when it comes to the law and completing adoptions.

Good luck!