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No advice, just lots of hugs. Just because a father is clean and stable doesn't always mean he wants to be a daddy. I don't think it's an absolute that he will want to parent his child, and maybe he would be happy with some contact and visits? I believe children should remain with their first parents if that's possible, but it's not always meant to be. One child we were potentially matched with had a stable father...who was married and this little guy was the product of an affair. Dad didn't want to raise him because he'd have to tell his wife. You never know the whole situation. If it's meant to be, it will. I'm sorry you and your family are going through this.
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