OK did I say we won de facto? We did, but fp's have it too. AND they denied me overnights, even judge said not to for now, until we get the therapist thing worked out.
NOW, we have a new psych eval for my nephew ordered in a different town, Sacramento. Sounds good, right? HMMMMMMMMMMMMMM? This place WORKS WITH CPS and I am a tiny bit suspicious. I KNOW it sounds paranoid but it isn't paranoia if it IS TRUE
OK and I have NOT received anything in writing as to what they want. I have heard the evals were for each invovled too? THEN I heard just my nephew, then I heard bonding assessment. HMMM? (I also asked the first time IF it was a bonding assessment and was told NO.) So which is it and what do they want with it and what does it mean if I do it? All of those questions floating around, that with how I have been treated DOES make me suspicious. So any information on the good and bad would be greatly appreciated
I got a call from the Dr. and they want to do it THIS NEXT week. I want to do it, but worry. I KNOW he is bonded to the fp's. DUH, he has been there since last January. I also know that he is bonded to me, but it has to be on a different level, I am never said that. JUST that I should have had him MONTHS ago. So he should NEVER gotten bonded to them as much in the first place. OK and IS he ABLE to attach is the question too? AND how to handle the transition? BUT is THAT their purpose OR is it to push me aside??????????
So I have some research to do and then get back to them. OH and fit it into my schedule because I was gone for 4 days and 3 nights and I have a family that needs me too
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NOW the BAD State Adoptions for that area, has called my sister and WANTS to sign the designated relinquishments. ?? Again HMM? That is the supervisor there, the other woman there ALREADY had the 2 visits with BOTH parents and DID NOT allow them to sign. THEY have been dragging their feet all along to get to TPR and WANT the fp's to get my nephew. SO here is a dilemma. The SUPERVISOR wants to meet with both parents TWICE, before signing. HMMM? TPR is set for Dec. 5th? The evals are ordered, the first meeting is the 18th, then BEFORE Thanksgiving they want the relinquishments signed? Does that mess up ANY appeals for the birth parents if they do that and then NOT place with me? I know how a desgnated relinquishment works, BUT still JUST prior to TPR are those seen as less important? Are the eval and bonding assessment ammo for State Adoptions to NOT place with me?
Any input about past experience would be helpful while I try to get back into the swing of things at home
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THANKS!!!