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Yes, I agree.....That's what I'm worried about, I don't want it to look like I am ashamed! But, somehow I feel it's my boys story to tell.....When he is bigger he can choose who he would like to know?
What gets to me is like with this friend of mine who went through the second adoption...: I was in the other room changing my babies nappy and when I came back she was bussy telling the whole crowd of my babies adoption and they were discussing how he doesn't look like me exct. When I came in I felt like I had to protect him in some way...I know this sounds irrational, but then, this is just how I felt.
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