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Old 11-14-2008, 08:12 PM
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I don't know if I got off course or not...I know I went on a tangent, but it makes me angry to have men discounted. That is good, honest, loving, caring fathers. That are okay with crying and every other gender bending stereotype.

That said, I asked my husband who he would want our kids to go to if ever lost. And he said, "Well, ultimately, someone safe. But if I had to choose between a man and a woman, I would choose a woman. Because I know they are less likely to be a sexual offender and my primary concern, over my gender identity, is keeping my kids safe."

He said he is no way diminishing men - just his gut reaction.
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