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Originally Posted by mygrl4meee
Have you thought about birth control?? How can you keep having babies and placing them for adoption. How can you deal with the pain and sorrow over and over. I think anymore than one child placed for adoption would make me jump in the river.
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WOW! As a moderator I was going to delete your post as I think it is highly rude, however since BparentsCandJ has not taken offense and replied to you I will not.
But speaking as a first mom, WOW! I can not tell you how many years I have spent trying to get people to understand that unless you have walked a mile in my shoes, please don't judge me. I have never been where BparentsCandJ is, I only dealt with 1 unplanned pregnancy and while it was the hardest thing to do and I can not imagine ever having to do it again, I would never condemn another first mom for feeling like that is the route she needs to go.
We do not know her circumstances fully, she came here looking for support and resources I hope she finds that. I am sure there are enough people IRL that she deals with or may have to deal with that just don't get it, let's try to be more supportive of her.