sks217,
My heartfelt EMPATHY for you and all of your family at this time. I too received confrimation this past June, and am 43, and also have the Canadian BC with no parents names on it.
You have receieved some sound advice already. Certainly you are welcome here, and I have found this site a warm comfort with great insight since June. I have been dealing with this issue for more than five years, and my "parents" still will not tell me the truth sadly enough. They are both still living however many miles away.
The anger is intense, overwhelming, and completely unbearable at times. There are no words adequate enough to describe what goes on inside us at this point. It does subside over time, but go through it. Try not to worry about what others will say, and seek support from those who have been through it, and or professionals with much experience. While our family and friends sure do mean well, please realize it is little comfort and at times I have been completely inconsolable. I try to keep those moments between myself and the Lord, however, there are times when the pain and grief simply from the betrayal are too much. Know you will get THROUGH it, not over it, but through it!
We are here for you, even though complete strangers, we are at heart very much connected. Please pm me anytime you would like.
I have tried the above suggested link to Ron Morgan although I did not get anywhere. The site seems to be as of a couple of years ago. There are some great personal experience stories on there though, no two the same....but the mind set and the emotions, just the same, we all just word them a bit different at times.
I started praying for you yesterday when I read this, I have thought on it before posting. Not so much good with advice, just would like you to know I am here, and share a similar story. I am so sorry you are having to go through this.
Lots of warm regards,
Marilyn