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Advice need on Pictures for bmom
I have a terrible relationship with the bmom of my daughter. I am trying to build a relationship and make this work, but she is not making it easy. But I know for my daughter I need to do everything I can.
I have 2 questions;
What kind of pictures do you like to receive of your birth child? Pictures that are close up, wide shots to show the environment, professional shots, shots that show the child with family members? Or does it matter to you?
We did set up a flickr.com account so that she can view all of the pictures and purchase copies if she would like to do so. I am not sure that she will look at the pictures, but we set the account up to provide her with options.
I just am not sure what kind of pictures many bmoms would like. For the next year or so a brief letters and a few photos are all the communication we will have. Hopfully down the road we will be able to change the current arrangement.
I would ask her, but at this time due to court issues communication from her to us is not permitted.
Also, in update letters do you like a descriptive narrative or just the facts.
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Debbie
Foster Parent- Biomom - Adoptive Mom
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