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Old 11-12-2008, 10:56 AM
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One thing you definitely need to do is let the new fmom know about the sexual acting out and the aggression. She's going to have to take steps to keep any other kids in the house safe, so please, don't be shy about passing that information along.

Other than that, how about sharing a list of things that comfort the little girl, making sure the fmom knows what her lovies are, and offering up any paperwork that you have? I think that psych reports, medical records and so on are really key for helping the new family get this little one settled in. THe fewer surprises they have, the more likely they'll be to hang in there instead of giving up on this little one.
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