Welcome to the forums! I am a first mom and my birth son just turned 18 in October. My adoption journey has been long and bumpy, had a semi-open adoption that after 7 years his parents cut off without notice. I tried for 10 years to find him and finally last year was able to locate them with the help of a search angel, made contact with his mom and found out that he wanted to hear from me. We have been emailing back and forth sporadically for almost a year now. It is SLOW going and the ball is definitely in his court so to speak, but I love knowing the little things he shares with me.
I say try and make contact with him and his family, let him have the option and go from there.
Best of luck to you and if I can help please don't hesitate to PM me.
