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Just my two cents, but I would wait to see the birthfamily until AFTER you finalize. You don't want a meeting beforehand to somehow jeopardize the finalization, especially if they are having a hard time with it. You know, the more I think of it, this might not even be the best time to try to meet with them, so I wouldn't push it if they haven't been overly responsive. Even though finalizing is a really happy time for you, it's probably a really sad time for them.
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