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I agree with Leigh- you need to make sure you are completely comfortable with opening things up before you offer. We ended up agreeing to more visits then we had originally planned. It has been okay, so far, however birthmom is rather demanding. We never know when she will request more pictures or different settings for pictures, a different day for updates or more openness. We send our monthly updates, pictures and any communications through our agency and are trying to set boundaries. It can be hard. So follow your heart and be very honest with yourselves.
Thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Know that your forum friends are here to support you.
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2-5-07 Signed with an agency 
6-5-07 We are officially waiting for a match! 
2-07-08  We got the call  We're Matched!  It's a Boy
3-30-08 Got the call- Baby is on his way- So are we 
3-31-08 Baby boy born 
4-4-08 We are home!
6-28-08 First visit with birthparents- Good day!!!!
8-20-08 Adoption finalized in the courts
8-30-08 Finalization documents received 
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