Looks like we are in a similar boat. My 40th b-day was sunday, and my daughter sent me a birthday wish "I hope that this is his last, tell him that". Needless to say, my daughter needs a spanking
I hate the guessing game. Who knows when she'll want to talk, but I am not interested in carrying on a conversation on how much she wants me dead...she doesn't know me, at all. (she is 15) so this is what I should expect. argh!
I hope neither of us have to wait 3 more years, but you know we will wait if we have to.