[kakuehl]

Hi,
Are things going better for you? Do you have anything other than an email for her? I found my birth son on this site when he was 32 and I was 53. From here I got his name, but all his information was out of date. From his name I actually located his parents first and emailed his adad. If she is active on the other site, it sounds like she's open to reunion.

I wish you well as you wrestle with how to do this. (I must admit, I would have rushed to send an email... but that's me.)