Convex, I have empathy for the situation you are faced with. This post read like a soap-opera. Brandy is 100% correct, listen to her wise words. In my opinion, not only does husbands daughter need counseling, but ALL 3 of you do. This in my opinion, is not a correct enviroment to bring a child into. Your step-daughter?, has not even had this child yet and many things will inevatibly change. But first and foreost this pregnant mother to be , most definately needs counseling, it is not normal , mentality wise, to say that the decision is up to her father, and whatever he wishes is oksy with her. THIS IS JUST LUDICROUS! You mentioned you could not bare a child since you, yourself, relinquished, this unfortunately does happen to alot of us after we relinquish. This too needs to be adressed in counseling. I think there alot of issues that need to be resolved before bringing an innocent little child into this. Your husband most assuredly needs to seek advice from professionals, he needs to figure out why it is okay to raise his daughters child, but cannot commit to having one with you...after all he said" He had raised his children and needed no more". I hope you can keep coming and listening to these wise women, they will be able to help, but professionals will also be needed in this one. I mean no disrespect to you and welcome you here to post and we will listen, God Bless You and I am so sorry you are dealing with all this...
