[BrandyHagz]

Well, it kinda sounds like you have a decision to make. I would guess your husband feels as strongly about this as you do - although your opinions seem to be very different.

Who is right and who is wrong? Both and neither of you - if that's what you want to hear. You're both equally right and equally wrong - because in the end, there is no 'perfect' answer - it’s only an answer. You have to do what is right for you just ask your husband has to do what is right for him.

If you feel you DO NOT want to mother this child and he feels equally strong that he DOES want to father this child - then it sounds like a disagreement on issues between the two of you...

It isn't your responsibility to make him see your side...nor is it his to make you see his.

I suggest you ALL sit down and make a decision you can live with. No one should be forced to make a decision that is not what they feel is right.