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My MIL has caused difficulties between my DH and I as well. Her husband passed away in 2001 and since then she has not been stable and has put my children in dangerous situations as well. After MANY discussions between my DH and I he is just now seeing things for what they are. I think it is hard for a child to see their parents for anything but perfect. DH was in denial for a long time. He has just in the last three year laid boundaries and started backing me on things. MIL is no longer allowed to have the children in her home or for over-night visits.
It took DH a lot of time. I am sure it was a difficult feeling to be pulled in two directions by the women he loved most. I wish you well.
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