Angel,
My heart really goes out to you, as I too found out I was pregnant back in September.
First, don't spend any time stressing about your one night of drinking. That was one of my first questions when I found out I was pregnant too. Every doctor I've spoken to says a night or two of drinking before you realize you are pregnant are very unlikely to cause any permanent damage to your baby. It's alcohol dependents and those that frequently expose their unborn child to drugs that have problems.
Second, as for your decision whether or not to have the baby- Let that decision be yours and yours alone. No one can tell you what is best for you or what you can live with. Before I found out I was pregnant I knew I was very much Pro-choice- everyones situation is different. But when the father or my unborn child suggested abortion, I just knew in my heart that I would never be able to live with that decision. It wasn't about what other people would think of me, it was all about what I would think of myself. Only your heart can tell you what is right for you, and I truly believe whatever decision you make will be the right one for you
As for your relationship with the father, my best advice is to just go with the flow. The fact that he has been supportive so far is wonderful. This experience will certainly give you the opportunity to get to know each other a lot better. Just take it one day at a time. The father of my child is someone I was with for three years. I used to love him, but that was quite a while ago. I know that he is not someone I want to spend the rest of my life with, but that doesn't mean we can't love this baby just as much as we would if we had been married ten years.
Are you considering adoption for your baby? I am trying to decide that for myself. I too am a full time student, so I understand the debate between your own personal goals and your goals for what you want for your children. It doesn’t hurt to consider all of your options. Don’t let anyone tell you you can’t raise your baby though, because it doesn’t take diamond rings or a PhD to do that. Just a lot of love.
XOXO,
Kendra